16 Resources
National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs — LGBTQ+ specific intimate partner violence resources. A starting point for safety planning that accounts for LGBTQ+-specific risk patterns. Shelter access for LGBTQ+ survivors is available in most cities — call ahead to confirm welcoming policies. Identity-based abuse (outing, dead-naming, withholding hormones) is specifically named in LGBTQ+ DV training curricula. Free service; donations support but never gate access.
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24/7 LGBTQ+ specific violence support hotline 212-714-1141. Free, confidential, multilingual. A starting point for safety planning that accounts for LGBTQ+-specific risk patterns. Crisis lines are 24/7, free, confidential — counselors are trained on LGBTQ+ IPV specifically. Protection orders work the same for LGBTQ+ relationships; civil court issues them regardless of marriage status. Free, confidential, and open to anyone in the LGBTQ+ community.
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1-800-799-SAFE — 24/7 confidential help including LGBTQ+ inclusive support and safety planning. Relevant for survivors with HIV+ status whose abuser threatens to disclose to employers, family, or immigration. Safety planning happens in 30–60 min sessions and is tailored to the relationship and threats you're facing. LGBTQ+ IPV rates equal or exceed straight rates — but only ~30% of survivors access mainstream services because of past discrimination. All services free of charge to LGBTQ+ Utah residents...
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1-866-331-9474 — free 24/7 dating abuse support for young people including LGBTQ+ youth. Relevant for survivors with HIV+ status whose abuser threatens to disclose to employers, family, or immigration. Safety planning happens in 30–60 min sessions and is tailored to the relationship and threats you're facing. Identity-based abuse (outing, dead-naming, withholding hormones) is specifically named in LGBTQ+ DV training curricula. Free service; donations support but never gate access.
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Survivor-led DV organization supporting LGBTQ+, SM, and polyamorous communities. Hotline 617-742-4911. A starting point for safety planning that accounts for LGBTQ+-specific risk patterns. Therapy groups for LGBTQ+ DV survivors are usually free, meet weekly, and meet either in person or online. Protection orders work the same for LGBTQ+ relationships; civil court issues them regardless of marriage status. Open at no cost to LGBTQ+ Utah residents and the people supporting them.
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1-800-656-HOPE — Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network 24/7 support hotline for survivors. For LGBTQ+ survivors of intimate partner violence — same-sex couples, trans and nonbinary survivors, queer relationships of any shape. Crisis lines are 24/7, free, confidential — counselors are trained on LGBTQ+ IPV specifically. Same-sex IPV often gets mis-categorized as 'mutual combat' by police unfamiliar with abuse dynamics; LGBTQ+-trained responders fix this. Open at no cost to LGBTQ+ Utah residents and the...
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National organization supporting trans, gender non-conforming, and non-binary survivors of violence. Useful for survivors whose abuser uses outing, dead-naming, or family-rejection threats as control tactics. Most LGBTQ+ DV programs offer free legal help with protection orders, housing transitions, and custody. Identity-based abuse (outing, dead-naming, withholding hormones) is specifically named in LGBTQ+ DV training curricula. Free, confidential, and open to anyone in the LGBTQ+ community.
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Searchable database of every DV shelter in the US — filter for LGBTQ+ inclusive programs. Relevant for survivors with HIV+ status whose abuser threatens to disclose to employers, family, or immigration. Safety planning happens in 30–60 min sessions and is tailored to the relationship and threats you're facing. Protection orders work the same for LGBTQ+ relationships; civil court issues them regardless of marriage status. No cost — the program is grant-funded and confidentiality-protected.
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DC-based bilingual LGBTQ+ services including DV support (legacy organization). A starting point for safety planning that accounts for LGBTQ+-specific risk patterns. Shelter access for LGBTQ+ survivors is available in most cities — call ahead to confirm welcoming policies. Identity-based abuse (outing, dead-naming, withholding hormones) is specifically named in LGBTQ+ DV training curricula. Open at no cost to LGBTQ+ Utah residents and the people supporting them.
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CUAV — San Francisco LGBTQ+ violence prevention and survivor support. Worth contacting if a provider refused you DV services because the abuser was the same gender. Crisis lines are 24/7, free, confidential — counselors are trained on LGBTQ+ IPV specifically. Protection orders work the same for LGBTQ+ relationships; civil court issues them regardless of marriage status. Free service; donations support but never gate access.
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NRCDV resources including LGBTQ+ survivor needs and culturally specific support. Worth contacting if a provider refused you DV services because the abuser was the same gender. Crisis lines are 24/7, free, confidential — counselors are trained on LGBTQ+ IPV specifically. Same-sex IPV often gets mis-categorized as 'mutual combat' by police unfamiliar with abuse dynamics; LGBTQ+-trained responders fix this. No cost — the program is grant-funded and confidentiality-protected.
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Working with criminal and civil court systems on domestic violence response. Worth contacting if a provider refused you DV services because the abuser was the same gender. Crisis lines are 24/7, free, confidential — counselors are trained on LGBTQ+ IPV specifically. Identity-based abuse (outing, dead-naming, withholding hormones) is specifically named in LGBTQ+ DV training curricula. Free service; donations support but never gate access.
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NNEDV — national coalition of state DV coalitions. For LGBTQ+ survivors of intimate partner violence — same-sex couples, trans and nonbinary survivors, queer relationships of any shape. Therapy groups for LGBTQ+ DV survivors are usually free, meet weekly, and meet either in person or online. LGBTQ+ IPV rates equal or exceed straight rates — but only ~30% of survivors access mainstream services because of past discrimination. Free, confidential, and open to anyone in the LGBTQ+ community.
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NYC-based national leader in DV and crime victim services. Relevant for survivors with HIV+ status whose abuser threatens to disclose to employers, family, or immigration. Therapy groups for LGBTQ+ DV survivors are usually free, meet weekly, and meet either in person or online. LGBTQ+ IPV rates equal or exceed straight rates — but only ~30% of survivors access mainstream services because of past discrimination. No cost — the program is grant-funded and confidentiality-protected.
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Legal information for survivors of abuse including LGBTQ+ specific resources. A starting point for safety planning that accounts for LGBTQ+-specific risk patterns. Most LGBTQ+ DV programs offer free legal help with protection orders, housing transitions, and custody. Protection orders work the same for LGBTQ+ relationships; civil court issues them regardless of marriage status. No cost — the program is grant-funded and confidentiality-protected.
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Resources for trans and intersex survivors of domestic and sexual violence. A starting point for safety planning that accounts for LGBTQ+-specific risk patterns. Shelter access for LGBTQ+ survivors is available in most cities — call ahead to confirm welcoming policies. Identity-based abuse (outing, dead-naming, withholding hormones) is specifically named in LGBTQ+ DV training curricula. Free service; donations support but never gate access.
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